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Morsal Obeidi

Morsal Obeidi, 16, Germany.

16 year, Afghan born Morsal Obeidi lived in Hamburg, Germany with her family of five siblings. She went to high school and dressed as German girls her age, despite family pressure to adapt to more conservative clothing and behavior. Reports indicate that Morsal faced pressure, mistreatment and assaults at the hands of her father and siblings at home. She also was a regular visitor at Child and Youth Services welfare center.  In 2007, her family sent Morsal to Afghanistan for 9 months to be‘re-educated’ about religion and culture and returned to Germany only after she promised ‘to be obedient’.

In May 2008, Morsal was stabbed and beaten to death at a parking lot by her 23 year old brother Ahmed Obeidi in a pre-meditated crime. Ahmed who has a history of criminal violence, asked a cousin to meet Morsal and bring her to a parking lot on the pretense of wanting to “talk to her”. He stabbed his sister 23 times then fled as she died an hour later.

It was reported that Ahmed watched and monitored Morsal very closely and, when he was not available, he had cousins, uncles and aunts do it for him. Morsal faced threats and physical assaults from him for many years and once also reported him to the police. He felt discontented with her adapting to German culture and angered by her seeming western choices of uncovered hair, makeup and jeans.

 

Women’s Rights Groups staged a demonstration in front of the Hamburg courthouse when Ahmad’s trial began in October 2008. Obeidi was sentenced to life imprisonment in November 2009. When the verdict was read out in court the accused yelled that had the trial taken place in Kabul, Afghanistan, he would have already been released long ago. Relatives of the accused also assaulted and threatened a journalist in the room. Hamburg Judge Wolfgang Backen said while reading the verdict “He killed out of pure intolerance,”, adding that the murder was “treacherous” and a premeditated “bloodbath” after all other attempts to “discipline” his sister had failed.

In a tribute video, Morsal’s friends said: “You died because you wanted to choose how to live your life. “. Morsal is remembered as a bright girl who enjoyed life in Germany and wanted the same freedoms and opportunities her German classmates had.




Dear Morsal,
Do you know that summer is here,
Spring was a beautiful color of purple
And left the Earth with shades of its design.
If only you were here to see.
Autumn comes next,
A chilly breeze will accompany it,
As we rustle our feet between the fallen yellow leaves
If only you were here to feel.
But I am sure where you are
There are four seasons of laughter and joy
Four seasons of the home and refuge you deserved
Four seasons of light and love.
Four seasons of being yourself, forever.



-MEMINI

 

 

Messages in “Morsal Obeidi”

  1. christianne hilgenberg says:

    domestic violence is about power and control rooted in centuries of patriarchal privilege .. when society changes domestic violence will begin to cease ..we as humans must all take responsibility and change the cultures the laws ..the traditions in regards to honour killing .. you have the right to be you .. to say no ..to change your mind.. to protest and be angry when treated with disrespect and abuse .. tears and prayers for your life cut short dear angel, Morsal and God grant you paradise for the suffering you endured <3

  2. Paul Harper says:

    When I saw Morsal’s photo and then read the inevitable story of inhumanity, I just felt sorrow for a girl who just wanted the same basic right to life as other girls outside warped religions have – RIP

  3. aditi says:

    RIP Morsal jaan… Inshallah we will be united one day.. Eid Mubarak.

  4. MUGDHA says:

    how hard it is to say..that i am born to be my way..
    how easy to cut me inside..kill me and my body you hide
    rape me and your pride will increase
    i am paying some very high fees
    to be a girl and not a boy
    wished i would have born a non living toy..

  5. sani says:

    RIP Morsal. I don’t want to defend Islam again and again but the matter of fact is that in Islam it is ordered for women to be dresses modestly, if they don’t agree, then matter should be left to their own choice, killing is unlawful and a crime of serious nature.

  6. Diego says:

    So sad. Rot in jail, stupid unbrained.

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